Girls become lovers, who turn into mothers.

  Theres a Song John Mayer wrote called "Daughters", I think if you're a parent you should listen to it. The lyrics are raw and so true. When you're a parent you need to give your child stability, and be a "fit" parent. Giving your child instability, for example, telling your kid "This is daddy" and then going and telling him/her "This is your daddy too" is wrong. You effect your kid NOW. Doing this like yelling and cursing infront of your child while they are young can still effect them. I'm young but I took enough classes on the human brain and child development to back myself up. Also what I believe is wrong is taking your child away from the only father they know just because you're selfish. Once you have a baby it's not all about you, it's about YOUR CHILD. You are your childs role model, so act like an adult. You made an adult decision to keep a baby, create a baby, adopt a baby, get a sperm donor ect. Not only are you screwing up your childs life, but it could be inpacting someone elses life as well.

"I'm starting with the man in the mirror, i'm asking him to change his ways. And no message would have been any clearer, if you wana make the world a better place."

BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD. Start with you & the next generation first.

Girls.

So I went to the movies the other night to see Twilight, while I was walking back to the theater from getting popcorn I walk past a long line for the girls bathroom. As I was walking a girl yelled out "whore". I didn't process until I had gotten back to the theater. Was this directed at me? Wether or not it was directed at me it really bothered me. It bothered me because 1. (If It was directed at me) I am a mother, I have done everything I can to protect my image as a mother. Not dressing like a "whore", not dressing to provacitive, being classy and watching how I hold myself. And I am a totally different person today that I was before I got pregnant. 2. Why would you put someone down like that? Are you a "whore" and have a guilty conscience? Or are you just jelous because you're man would rather have her than you?
Regardless, no one should talk like that to a female, wether they're bad news or not. I must say i'm not 100% perfect, I have done my fair share as well. But as I matured, I realize "is this the life you want? To talk about other people?"

And FYI: If someone is a mom, respect that. Just because they're young doesn't mean they don't deserve the same respect as a mother in their 30's .